Published December 17, 2007 by
As the family grapples with the serious illness and perhaps the imminent death of the baby, the infant must also cope with the consequences of their ill health. An infant’s need to be cuddled is just as great as her requirement for food. She thrives on consistent care from her parents. A baby quickly comes to know and love these special people.
Separations, such as hospitalizations, can be very distressing for an infant.
Parents of children of chronic diseases can sometimes arrange to care for the child at home with or without the assistance of a nurse. Should parents decide to bring their dying baby home, many communities have resources to assist them during this period [such as visiting nurses, home care nursing, and hospital care].
During necessary hospitalizations, most hospitals allow parents unrestricted visiting privileges and often provide facilities for parents to room-in with the sick infant or child. These arrangements give parents the opportunity to participate in the care of their sick baby. Caution must be exercised not to spend so much time with the ill child that the well-being of the parents and other members of the family suffer.
Things to do that can help you cope with an ill or dying baby includes the following: